As parents, we want our girl to grow up gracefully with kindness and high self-esteem. We want them to be strong and inspiring, to be able to carry themselves well when we cannot be there to help them.
If you are a parent to a girl, you have most probably thought about the question “How to raise a daughter” for thousands, if not millions of times.
As we all know, raising a daughter is complicated, raising strong daughters is even more so. There are many aspects to be given attention to when it comes to raising a strong daughter, and one of it is to educate them about womanhood.
Check out this article now on the things you should teach to your daughter about true womanhood!
Via iMOM: 8 Things to Teach Your Daughter About True Womanhood
What is true womanhood and what do we need to teach our daughters about it? If there were ever questions with complicated answers–those two qualify. But before we talk about what we want to teach our daughters about true womanhood, let’s think about ourselves first, because our daughters will learn the most about what it means to be a woman from us. If we’re comfortable in our own skin, we can teach them how to be comfortable in theirs. If we find joy and purpose in being a woman, they will too.
Look at your own life. Think about what’s important to you, the lessons you’ve learned that you want to pass on to your daughter. Use our list as a starting point. Even if you don’t agree with everything on it, let it spur you on to consider what messages you’re sending your girl. Here are our 8 things to teach your daughter about true womanhood.
1. Be True to Who You Are
There is no one right way to be a woman. You are unique and there is no one on earth exactly like you.
2. Speak Your Mind
Your thoughts have value. Your opinions have value. Speak them freely. Choose to be with people who allow you to speak your mind—this goes for friends and boyfriends. If someone tries to shut you down or can’t carry on a conversation without habitually getting angry or disrespectful, distance yourself. Of course, you’ll want to wisely choose how you speak your mind too.
3. You Are More Than Your Body
Think about this: If we did not have bodies, what would society use to assess us? Our actions, our words, our attitude. That is who you are. A woman is not her hair color, her weight, or her skin color. And, since those things are mainly determined by genetic predisposition, why spend precious time wishing you were different or trying to change things that don’t need to be changed?
4. You Have Choices
In our world, you can pretty much go after anything you want. The restrictions on what’s “acceptable” for women to pursue are lessening every day. So feel free to think big. If you fail, so what? Learn from it and praise yourself for trying in the first place. Trying is better than regretting.
5. Being a Wife Can Be Amazing
Going through life with a husband who loves you, encourages you, and is there for you, will add an incredible dimension to your life. Having said that, experiencing that kind of relationship hinges on making a wise choice about who you will marry. Being a wife to a man who is volatile, immature, or demeaning is not what being married is about.
6. Being Single Can Be Amazing
While single, you have the luxury of completely controlling your own time. Choose to fill it with things that enrich your life. If you do want to marry, try not to see singlehood as a holding area.
7. Being a Mother Can Be Amazing
Motherhood imbues you with a kind of love like no other. It is a love that will bring you your greatest joy and your greatest heartache. It will also require a lot of work and sacrifice on your part. All the more reason to choose a husband who will support you as a mother, and father his children well.
8. Men Are Different
To understand true womanhood, we need to understand true manhood. Science has proven that men and women are different. So try to learn about the motivators that drive men and how they are physiologically different from women. This information will serve you well on the job, in marriage, and in parenting.
True womanhood? It’s truly amazing.
Tell us! What would you teach your daughter about true womanhood?